This is one of those instances when material possession teaches you how to cope with other problems in life.
When you lose some irreplaceable object of yours. Something that you treasured. Something which had become a part of your secret pride. A reflection of who you are, your taste and your single individual character.
You lose that precious thing. Accidentally, unknowingly.
Agony,disturbance, pain and anger. It seems as though you cannot stay still until you get it back. You rummage through the details. Finally you have to accept that it is lost. Lost for good and that you can never get it back. Never.
What next?
Well, you accept the fact, mourn and then move on. Move on to find something better, something that will capture your heart the self same way, or even more. You accept it and go out and find nicer things.
Go out, shop and keep looking for a more beautiful piece of earring.
This is how it gets okay.
